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      歡迎來到原中小學教育資源網!

      不肯承認錯誤、愛說謊,這樣的孩子怎么教?

      瑞文頭條 時間:2018-10-16 我要投稿
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        很多家長都會經歷一個難題,那就是孩子做錯事,不僅不肯承認錯誤,還學會了編織謊言,企圖蒙混過關。

        明明自己打碎了花瓶,還把責任推給家中寵物;

        明明是自己偷吃了糖,還硬說是被小伙伴拿走了。

        如果孩子第一次撒謊成功,必定會有第二次第三次。

        如果家長不及時糾正,那么在孩子的心里就會形成這樣的認知:既然撒謊能逃過懲罰,為什么還要說真話。

        饒雪漫曾在《沙漏》中說過:“大人的世界充滿欺騙骯臟,我真希望自己永遠都不要長大,不要長大。”

        孩子本就是一張白紙,是什么讓他們學會開始說謊,不肯承認自己的錯誤?

        父母只有找到原因,才能根治孩子這一個愛說謊的毛病。

        -01-

        孩子說謊的原因

        1.害怕懲罰

        大多數孩子說謊的原因都是為了躲避懲罰,出現這種情況的原因,往往是因為父母曾因為一件錯事懲罰過孩子,讓孩子產生心理陰影,隨意害怕真相敗露而受罰。

        2.掩蓋尷尬

        孩子雖小,但同樣注重面子,害怕沒有面子,尤其是在自己最愛的爸媽面前。

        孩子愛面子,可能是因為爸媽曾經因為一件事而笑話過孩子,讓孩子覺得不好意思,甚至很沒面子。

        3.認知能力不足

        有些孩子往往會因為無法正確的區分現實與想象的差別,無意識下造成說謊。

        這一類的孩子一般年齡偏小,認知能力有限。

        -02-

        孩子說謊怎么辦

        孩子一旦說謊,父母不要著急責備,勒令孩子立馬改正。

        父母要做的首先就是理解孩子說謊的行為,弄清楚孩子為何要說謊后,再進行教導也不遲。

        人無完人,誰都會犯錯,別說是孩子,所以父母要允許孩子犯錯誤。

        人都是犯錯中跌跌撞撞中成長的,世界上沒有不犯錯誤的小孩

        父母要接納孩子犯錯的過程,孩子的成長就是在逐漸地學習犯錯,改正的過程。

        -03-

        如何糾正孩子說謊的毛病

        1.不要明知故問,給孩子說謊的機會。

        當你知道花瓶是孩子打碎的時候,你還故意詢問是誰做的,這就是給了孩子一個說謊的機會,這屬于父母變相“鼓勵”孩子說謊。

        2.父母要以身作則。

        父母是孩子的第一任老師,父母是孩子了解世界最初的橋梁。

        如果父母有說謊的毛病,必然會被孩子所模仿,所以,作為父母,應該要以身作則,給孩子梳理一個好榜樣。

        3.鼓勵孩子說真話。

        孩子說謊不是害怕自己的所作所為,就是害怕父母的行為。因為孩子知道說真話會受到懲罰。

        此時,需要父母鼓勵孩子說真話,父母可以這樣做:

        如果孩子承認錯誤,那么父母不會斥罵,并和孩子一起討論怎么彌補過失。幫助TA們改正錯誤,而不是揪住他們的錯誤跌得不休。

        只有這樣,孩子才不再害怕告訴你真想。

        孩子說謊并不可怕,可怕的是父母不作為或者亂作為,所以作為父母的你,應該要懂得如何正確對待孩子不愛承認錯誤,喜歡說謊這一問題。

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